Doing Chores for Other Ladies under HER Direction

Recently I was instructed that my services would be required after work to help a Lady friend of Her Majesties’. It was a very basic kind of chore. “We” were going to help her friend a Ms. Rachael (to the surprise of all this is NOT her real name!) who was recently widowed by removing, laundering, and rehanging a set of flags that she had hanging up in her small private school.

They had gotten a little dirty, she had added a couple more and the overall package was not looking very sharp at this time.

She and her husband had created this school several years ago and actually lived inside of it. They had built a set of rooms of their own in the back. So partly this visit was to do a small favor for her friend and partly it was to pay a visit this lady who undoubtedly gets lonely these days living alone inside the big empty school building since her husband has passed away.

After work I drove home and picked her Highness up and drove us both to the school. Ms. Rachael met us at the door. Now she was always the more ‘dynamic’ of the couple and I know the kids were always a little frightened of her. But I have always liked her. Maybe it’s because I react to her personality the way a man who respects strong women acts. Maybe it’s because I am not a kid in her school and did not share their reason to fear her wrath!

Yes Ma'am Ms. Stern Teacher Lady Ma'am! Yes Ma'am!
I LIKE Learning In Your Class Ma'am!
Thank You For Teaching me Ma'am!

Anyway, we arrived and the ladies said “hello”, out of courtesy Ms. Rachael also acknowledged me. She is always polite and she was going to engage me in conversation and make me feel comfortable in being there. But before I would let her turn the conversation spotlight on me, I used this opportunity to retell the story of my Queen’s quick actions at the ballet which I wrote about recently. 

As proud of My Queen My Hero as I was, I was pretty proud of myself in this instance too! I had directed any attention away from myself and shifted the focus onto a conversation about how great my wife is. And I got to do in front of both of them. YES! Every time that you can do this is an action that Ladies REALLY LIKE! 

This is a behavior that Dale Carnegie wrote about in has famous book "How to Win Friends and Influence People". He wrote about very successful people who had learned the trick of avoiding talking about themselves but always placing a positive spotlight on others. When you make the other people around you the stars of the evening, they will feel good about themselves. And they will simply remember that being around you made them feel like better people. They will like that feeling and they will seek it, and YOU out again! And this will happen whether they ever realize that you are making an effort to spotlight them or not. They will simply remember how empowering it felt and what an ego boost it was to be around you.

So always try to think of things beforehand that will shine a good light on your Lady or one of the other Ladies who will be in attendance (hopefully a Lady that YOUR Lady Boss approves of! - Don't make a BIG mistake here!). Then use your limited speaking time to bring up this story. Be quiet afterward and let the Ladies do the talking. If you can do this well, you will be sought after for EVERY gathering! And THAT is precisely what you want, to be endlessly surrounded by women who feel good about themselves when you are near!

The Ladies knew what to do and took it from where I had left it. I had no need to speak again which is generally a good thing. Men are here to do as they are asked, not to launch into some topic of their own and try to talk over the Ladies! And besides I had used my opportunity to fulfill one of the cardinal rules of Surrendered Husbandhood, I had honored my Queen to her friend in front of both of them. I could have blushed. Oh how I pray for MORE opportunities like that!

"Oh Gosh! I Sure Do Like Being Around All You STRONG WONDERFUL Ladies! It Sure Is Swell Ma'am!
Are There Any Chores I Could Do For You While I Am Here? It Sure Would Be An Honor Ma'am!"

The three of us climbed the stairs to the landing where the flags hung. The ladies had all kinds of people and things to talk about and catch up on, so without any further instructions I simply knelt at both of their feet and started to remove the flags. They paid no open attention to me as I worked for several minutes until they realized that I was stuck on the very last knot and had spent a long time on it. 

All REAL men want to kneel before Women!

When they realized that I was all but done, Ms. Rachael said: "Oh look he's been doing all the work and we've just been standing here talking all this time!" Then they both laughed, I blushed a little and remained docilely silent at their feet. I felt like this is EXACTLY how life should be! Women are to be revered, they should not be required to do lowly manual tasks if men are available!

Ms. Rachael went off to get me a pair of scissors to cut the final knot. When she left, Mistress wasted no time in standing very close to me. She patted me on the head and stroked my hair like I was her little doggie. I gave her back a soft and jovial "Woof Woof!".

She laughed about it just a little. But I KNOW that she was feeling as warm inside as I was at that moment. I think at this point in the evening all three of us were in agreement about how life ought to be lived! Men were to be quiet, cute, and busy doing chores to serve women. While the women were to be served and revered.

I sometimes think my Queen laughs in situations like this because it is her fantasy coming true and she cannot believe or accept that it is now her reality. “My man is obediently kneeling at my feet and doing little menial chores for me right now! He is right where I have always wanted him and right where I have always felt that he belonged! OH YUM!”

Ah Modern Love! Ain't It Great To Be A man Today!
It Is Wonderful To Live Openly In Service And Reverence To The Ladies At Last!

I finished my task and the two of us left for dinner. Mistress invited Ms. Rachael to join us but she did not wish to go. I know that I would have enjoyed sitting quietly beside Her Majesty while the two of them continued their talk but, “Her Will Be Done!”

I drove us to a Thai restaurant that Mistress likes. I am not so crazy about it but again always remember…. “Her Will Be Done!”

The waiter must have been new. We had to ask him for glasses of water and when he came to take our order he actually looked right at me and said “What will you have Sir?” I said nothing and with raised eyebrows and tilted head, I looked over toward Mistress as in: “I defer unto Thee Madame.” Her Ladyship did not miss a beat as she instructed him: “I will be ordering first!”

OH MY HEART SKIPPED AN ASSERTIVE LADY BEAT!!! YUM!!! Power to the Ladies Right on! Remember, that unless there is an element of danger involved - Ladies Go First At Everything! They go through the door you held for them first. They go to the table at the restaurant first and wait for you to pull out their chair, they order first, etc. "Ladies First"

Males Were Created Simply To Serve And Adore The Superior Female

I felt like she had put him in his place and had reminded me of mine all at the same time. Her confidence and assertiveness in all things Female just seems to grow and grow! And I love it as does she! I know that she enjoyed it because she mentioned the incident later as well with a smile on her face.

SO to recap, nothing earth shattering occurred. No one made a big scene and whipped some poor (lucky) devil’s ass and made him lick the women’s boots afterward. It was just a little window into how things are for me and I love it! I hope (and I believe) that more and more couples will head down this road to female reverence and male service. That’s all.

Looks FUN! But Isn't Really An Every Day Kind Of Thing.
Well I can DREAM Can't I!?

Oh and to emphasize that this was not just my fantasy life running away with me let us just say that when we got home, she was 'very happy' with me.

My Queen! My Hero!

Here is a true life story from a short time ago. 

I took Her Majesty to the ballet. She likes getting all dressed up and going to a nice restaurant and being doted on by me, who she treats as VERY LUCKY arm candy and then going to a nice show.

 

Take Your Queen Stepping Out Regularly!

So we went to the ballet and it was packed. A sold out show. Magnificent in every respect, from costumes to staging, to props, to the dancing itself to the symphony orchestra, everything was terrific!

When intermission came, we went out to the lobby to get drinks. The lobby is open air and has walkways overhead connecting it five floors up. It’s pretty cool to be able to go up there and see everyone milling around below.

Oh Those Beautiful Ballet Dancers!

 Only tonight it was not so cool. Right after we got our drinks we both heard a crashing sound high above us and before that registered I saw a 12” x 8” Plexiglas sign used to keep you from entering when the show is in progress skitter across the floor in front of me and then a man standing not five feet from me fell to the floor in pain.

 

It had fallen four floors and the corner of it had stuck him in the head, making a dent in his skull and knocking crowns off his teeth!

Immediately my brave, competent, wonderful wife jumped into action! She has an advanced degree in therapy and she was the ‘First Responder’ to the poor man whose head was now leaking blood. 

She stabilized him and worked a little pressure on the wound to keep him from gushing. She got someone to call 911 and stayed with him until the Fire Department guys showed up.

Needless to say, we were shaken during the second act but I was awfully proud to belong to such a Brave, competent, and wonderful woman.

She never showed any signs of fear or hesitation. She jumped right in and let her training take over.

Lucky Me! I Married Wonder Woman!

Male Atonement

We live in a world that has been traditionally patriarchal for generation upon generation. At various times and in certain places even today this is a horrific, brutal, and thoroughly unjust system. 

Often men have used their physical strength not to support and protect women but to subjugate them and abuse them. I know many women even today, living in America who feel that they were destined at birth to cook and clean, to bear and raise children, to be available for “her man’s” sexual advances. Oh and to ‘shut the hell up’ and always be a little afraid of their own man and men in general due to possible beatings and the ever present threat of rape. Their hopes and dreams dashed, they live lives of quiet desperation and are otherwise basically forgotten.

Obviously not all women today feel this way nor are they treated this way. There are numerous strong, independent women out there who can ‘Grab Life by The Balls’ and make it do what they want. I think some of you are even married to some of these awe inspiring ladies!

But even these modern women know that there are places not to go alone after dark or even with one or two girl-friends. Even they have to deal with certain men trying to take advantage of them in the market place because of their gender. Even a woman who knows as much about her car as her mechanic does probably gets tired of having some yokel try to sell her repairs that she does not need, which he would never try on a man.

How May i Be Privileged To Serve Thee Ma'am?

I will not and cannot recount to you the number of women who have confided to me about their own experiences of physical abuse and rape. Maybe it’s just me. I have a manner that most women tend to trust, and for that I am eternally grateful.

All these things are happening in the modern pro-feminist west that I am talking about! I can only try to imagine the degrading conditions that exist in some third world countries or throughout the past.

I myself, have never struck a girl or a woman, and I myself have certainly never committed nor threatened to commit rape. Yet, I am still overwhelmed with a deep remorse for my entire sex. I feel a great collective shame and a desire to atone before both my Woman and All Women for these grievous acts.

I know that collective guilt is not the same as personal guilt and if you do not feel the same way then that’s OK. I am just telling you how I feel about it. It sickens me to see these divine creatures treated with contempt. Treated as domestic slaves and sex slaves. To see their contributions belittled and laughed at.

I may be wrong but I think that there are a number of you who feel the same way. We all share this collective guilt. 

 

Ladies, we are truly sorry.

Can You Ever Forgive us Ma'am!? PLEASE!

 

How can we ever make it up to you?

As much as I would respect your decision to have every one of us stripped and caned in public and made to make endless apologies, I know that that is unlikely to happen.

 

The Weekly male Atonement Meeting Is Always Well Attended...

 

All I can offer is after my sincere apologies, my service and my respect. I WILL serve you chivalrously should any lout try to harm you that I can see. I WILL step between to protect you. I WILL open doors and carry packages out of respect and admiration for you. I WILL defend your names in public and straighten out those who tell degrading stories about women in general or women we know personally.

And I will live to serve my own personal Queen in her home and on the road doing the domestic chores and giving and pleasing as I can to build up her confidence and assertiveness as I WILL do for any other lady I can serve and build up.

I wish I could do more, but maybe if we all try, we the ‘Surrendered Hubbies’ of the world can start to make a few changes for the better.

 

Real men Live To Serve And Revere Ladies...